Friday, August 10, 2007

10 ADVICES ON ALL CASES OF THE SEXUAL LIFE

3 advice for Him:
What must I do, if...
1... She is against of oral sex?
Show with a personal example. Against it she will not precisely object. It is possible to assume, that when she will understand, how it is divine and as it is pleasant to you to do it for her, she will have a reciprocal desire to give to you pleasure. Has not arisen? Do not hurry to accuse her of egoism. Sometimes women refuse oral sex because they are afraid to appear at height simply are able to do this (or think, that are not able). The technical side of business can be solved by means of any pornographic cartridge. And the emotional side depends on your step and soft persistence.
2... Once she will express any not trivial wish - for example, will suggest to shave to you hair on your penis area?
Do not refuse! Non-standard sexual desires in most cases speak not about a pathology, and about deficiency of fresh impressions. Agreeing on her "follies", in parallel and show imagination. So you will avoid routine and boredom in your intimate relations.
3... Do you wish to become the father?
The best pose for conception, under the statement of experts, - when the woman lays on a back, having laid under a pelvis a pillow. But in an ideal a lot of actions should precede origin of a new life: refusal of smoking, alcohol and strong preparations at least three months prior to this important event. And still: experts recommend the man 3-4-daily sexual abstention - that has ripened the strongest and healthy sperm.

4 advices for Hеr:
What must you do if...
1... At him it has not turned out
Even time in a life sexual fiasco suffers everyone the man. You should introduce this idea in consciousness your favourite while he has not considered himself as the hopeless impotent man. For certain on the evening he is very tired. And can be, yesterday you had a rough night of love? The main thing - that nobody felt guilty that has happened. And what, actually, has happened?! Let to the man know, that he is dear to you without dependence from that, is at him erection or not. Believe, these words work better any Viagra!
2... The intimate affinity is accompanied by a pain or unpleasant sensations?
It’s one of three. May be you are afraid of intimate affinity or do not wish it. It interferes with a relaxation of muscles and normal humidifying of a vagina. Such problems usually are solved for one visit to the sexopathologist Or at you takes place to be cyst or inflammatory process, for example, erosion cervix of the uterus. Or in your organism there are any hormonal changes provoking dryness of a vagina (so often happens at menopausa). If the pain arises occasionally and only at the certain position, it can be connected with pressure of a member on ovary. It is Enough to change a pose - and the pain will disappear.
3... Do you found him for mastrubation?
Join! Anyway, behave as if mastrubating man is the usual phenomenon in your life. By the way, representatives of a man's tribe are engaged mastrubation twice more often, than their weak half. Why do they do it? The first is rehearse. The second is mentally change with another. The third is dumped with the pressure which has collected for a day, irritation. Why do not with you? Yes because do not wish to see in the beloved the car for removal of negative energy! So, whatever one may do, only on advantage. Besides, on their own recognition, onanizm urges on desire to occupy in the " true" sex even more.
4... he does not accept such method of contraception, as condoms
Try to find out, why. Perhaps, process of putting on of "elastic band" seems to him not aesthetic and no sexual? So transform it into a part of erotic game - putting on a condom, for example, a mouth. Probably, once he had an allergy on a poor-quality condom. Present him packing of the most reliable and hypo allergy products.

3 Advices for her and for him
What must you do if…
1... The condom has torn or there was a sexual act, doubtful from the point of view of contraception?
Experts recommend to accept to the woman a so-called tablet " tomorrow day " - for example, Postinor or PV 486. Basically, for this purpose to suit any hormonal contraceptive preparation in quantity of 4 tablets. The main thing to accept them not later than 72 hours after"the dangerous act. "
2... There was a spasm of a vagina?
Only do not twitch! By natural desire of the man it will be immediately pulled out from a love captivity - it cannot be done in no event, differently it can is serious traumatize your girl. She should relax warm bath. But easier and more quickly " to open the valve " it is possible, having entered in anal aperture of the woman a finger and slightly having delayed him downwards.
3... The man wants exclusively in the morning, and the woman - only in the evening?
The peak of man's sexual activity is necessary for five mornings. But it at all does not mean, that the nature cannot be deceived. Be reconstructed! To begin it is better during holiday when you do not need to be present on work at 9:00. Once you will understand what to wake up with the first beams of the sun and at once to make love is fine! And he will agree, that sex under the moon is worse than nothing.