10 ADVICES ON ALL CASES OF THE SEXUAL LIFE

3 advice for Him:
What must I do, if...
1... She is against of oral sex?
Show with a personal example. Against it she will not precisely object. It is possible to assume, that when she will understand, how it is divine and as it is pleasant to you to do it for her, she will have a reciprocal desire to give to you pleasure. Has not arisen? Do not hurry to accuse her of egoism. Sometimes women refuse oral sex because they are afraid to appear at height simply are able to do this (or think, that are not able). The technical side of business can be solved by means of any pornographic cartridge. And the emotional side depends on your step and soft persistence.
2... Once she will express any not trivial wish - for example, will suggest to shave to you hair on your penis area?
Do not refuse! Non-standard sexual desires in most cases speak not about a pathology, and about deficiency of fresh impressions. Agreeing on her "follies", in parallel and show imagination. So you will avoid routine and boredom in your intimate relations.
3... Do you wish to become the father?
The best pose for conception, under the statement of experts, - when the woman lays on a back, having laid under a pelvis a pillow. But in an ideal a lot of actions should precede origin of a new life: refusal of smoking, alcohol and strong preparations at least three months prior to this important event. And still: experts recommend the man 3-4-daily sexual abstention - that has ripened the strongest and healthy sperm.

4 advices for Hеr:
What must you do if...
1... At him it has not turned out
Even time in a life sexual fiasco suffers everyone the man. You should introduce this idea in consciousness your favourite while he has not considered himself as the hopeless impotent man. For certain on the evening he is very tired. And can be, yesterday you had a rough night of love? The main thing - that nobody felt guilty that has happened. And what, actually, has happened?! Let to the man know, that he is dear to you without dependence from that, is at him erection or not. Believe, these words work better any Viagra!
2... The intimate affinity is accompanied by a pain or unpleasant sensations?
It’s one of three. May be you are afraid of intimate affinity or do not wish it. It interferes with a relaxation of muscles and normal humidifying of a vagina. Such problems usually are solved for one visit to the sexopathologist Or at you takes place to be cyst or inflammatory process, for example, erosion cervix of the uterus. Or in your organism there are any hormonal changes provoking dryness of a vagina (so often happens at menopausa). If the pain arises occasionally and only at the certain position, it can be connected with pressure of a member on ovary. It is Enough to change a pose - and the pain will disappear.
3... Do you found him for mastrubation?
Join! Anyway, behave as if mastrubating man is the usual phenomenon in your life. By the way, representatives of a man's tribe are engaged mastrubation twice more often, than their weak half. Why do they do it? The first is rehearse. The second is mentally change with another. The third is dumped with the pressure which has collected for a day, irritation. Why do not with you? Yes because do not wish to see in the beloved the car for removal of negative energy! So, whatever one may do, only on advantage. Besides, on their own recognition, onanizm urges on desire to occupy in the " true" sex even more.
4... he does not accept such method of contraception, as condoms
Try to find out, why. Perhaps, process of putting on of "elastic band" seems to him not aesthetic and no sexual? So transform it into a part of erotic game - putting on a condom, for example, a mouth. Probably, once he had an allergy on a poor-quality condom. Present him packing of the most reliable and hypo allergy products.

3 Advices for her and for him
What must you do if…
1... The condom has torn or there was a sexual act, doubtful from the point of view of contraception?
Experts recommend to accept to the woman a so-called tablet " tomorrow day " - for example, Postinor or PV 486. Basically, for this purpose to suit any hormonal contraceptive preparation in quantity of 4 tablets. The main thing to accept them not later than 72 hours after"the dangerous act. "
2... There was a spasm of a vagina?
Only do not twitch! By natural desire of the man it will be immediately pulled out from a love captivity - it cannot be done in no event, differently it can is serious traumatize your girl. She should relax warm bath. But easier and more quickly " to open the valve " it is possible, having entered in anal aperture of the woman a finger and slightly having delayed him downwards.
3... The man wants exclusively in the morning, and the woman - only in the evening?
The peak of man's sexual activity is necessary for five mornings. But it at all does not mean, that the nature cannot be deceived. Be reconstructed! To begin it is better during holiday when you do not need to be present on work at 9:00. Once you will understand what to wake up with the first beams of the sun and at once to make love is fine! And he will agree, that sex under the moon is worse than nothing.

THE REASONS OF DIVORCES ARE FAMILY PROBLEMS

Divorces today are not news. In Russia each third marriage breaks up. In Moscow - everyone is the second. Thirty percent of a newly-married couple are not happy with the marriage. Forty - think of divorce in the first year of a joint life. Fifteen of them get divorced on the second. Surprise occasions to divorce much more. Even more often the reason of disintegration of family becomes not standard " a dissimilarity of characters " or change of one of spouses, and ordinary matrimonial boredom. Yes-yes! Passes time of the first love, the first serene years, and the husband with the wife start to live on the got algorithm. Beforehand all is known: it is what is the time allocated for work, how many - on children, and even how and when to be engaged in sex. It is no wonder, that spouses start to keep away gradually from each other. Habitual retorts, daily routine - and from former love does not remain both a trace. And the first this estrangement is noticed, as a rule, by the wife. In fact she feels disagreement in family traditionally more strongly and more sharply. Another is surprisingly: Perfectly knowing, that the family boat just about " will be broken about a life ", wives do not try to struggle at all with family boredom... In what is the reason of such behaviour? And how it is possible to overcome a monster by name Boredom? Really each family is doomed to pass through test by boredom? In fact it seems to a newly-married couple, that they will immensely appreciate every day, lead together.

After there have passed the first delights and joint "grinding in", there comes the period of the certain family calm when both are happy and happy. But there is time, and even rest starts to bother. After five-six years of a joint life spouses any more do not wait for surprises from each other. They well know merits and demerits of the partner. And if family safe do not feed vain hopes that the spouse in the course of time will turn to walking perfection, and with "minuses" of the wife (husband) already are able to be reconciled. All habits and predilections are each other studied up to trifles. And every day it is similar on previous. Not trying to keep freshness of relations, two doom themselves to eternal routine, and it should be reflected fatally in their attitudes.

For the woman a climate in family, the attitude of favourite especially is important. The family boredom turns to personal tragedy when the wife does not work. The missed opportunity to promote or not ended formation force the woman to take offence at the spouse. A pier, she for the sake of him has offered all, and he... And even if lady on a throat is busy, she all the same reacts to an inattention of the husband sharply. In fact coming back home, she tries to create what-any cosiness, and will come across impenetrable indifference. The husband doesn’t interest her problems, as a rule, on a throat is occupied own (on work, for example). It is natural, that sooner or later the wife starts to answer the same. And the crack in family relations gradually expands till the sizes of a precipice.

Husbands completely plunge into business contacts, it’s uninteresting to their wives. Both the free time, and the days off also are devoted to work. As a result, the wife appears in vacuum of dialogue with which cannot fill neither children, nor friends. Gradually she accepts "game rules" and gets the lover - quite natural outcome of a husband's inattention.

«The third superfluous " appears more often because of family boredom. When it is good together, people" do not look at the side”. And here deficiency of dialogue simply pushes the spouse or to the spouse on searches of happiness with other person. And really, if at home the same is constantly, daily torture of joint suppers, terse conversations and lawful " six minutes of sex in a week " (for comparison: on shaving at the man in a week 25 minutes leave approximately), unless can it be named FAMILY?

It’s said, illness is easier for warning, than to treat... If the objective reason of some cooling for a long time has disappeared, and former vivacity in relations to return it is not possible - to sound time alarm. In general it is necessary to be guarded, if each your day is similar on previous. The long matrimony, especially if at you while is not present children or they already for a long time are independent, - favorable circumstances for development of boredom. In fact the further the wife and the husband leave from each other, it’s more difficult to return freshness of relations. Here already nearby before occurrence of " a parallel life " at each of a two, so and before divorce. Remember: how long time did you speak friendly with the husband? How much time did you recently spend together? Do you know what disturb him and what please? And whether he knows, what disturbs you, whether is capable something to help, when it is bad? These are not all questions. They will help you to understand, whether it is time to something to change in relations, to make a life more pleasantly and more interestingly.

To return to relations of spouses former pleasure, first of all, it is necessary for something to change desire of both spouses. Only so they can help themselves. The husband and the wife should understand, that it is necessary to arrange to itself rest from grey everyday lives. To remain alone so that did not stir neither children, nor friends, work. To repeat from time to time a honeymoon in favourite places. Let infrequently, but to come back during that remarkable time when all was fresh and new.

The wife is capable to make much for "repair" of family. For example, simply to speak the husband compliments, to support him. It is possible to arrange pleasant surprises, to praise favourite in public (men oh as love it) and more often to speak what he wishes to hear. Husbands can be given similar advice: do not hesitate to express admiration favourite, even if you are together for a long time. And it is not necessarily should be "on duty" compliments...

Further, it is not necessary to drag in the house work’s troubles. In fact and the wife on her workplace, probably, is hardly. But what sense to vent a harm on the favourite person! On the contrary, the strong and understanding family will provide reliable rear whatever happens. And years of a matrimony should make family even more reliably. Think: will you really allow banal boredom to break your union?

With boredom in bed it is necessary to struggle especially intensively. A bedroom is not a place for quarrels and problems. It is better to understand in advance with all questions at issue. Exists and the certain biological problem with which families face with significant "experience". The matter is that the peak of sexual blossoming at men is necessary for 20-25 years. At women is only on 28. But many ladies are capable to take pleasure in sex nearly till ninety years. All these nuances can be reflected in an intimate life of spouses. And disharmonies it is necessary to be able to avoid, to be simple more closely to each other. It is necessary to stop to concern to sex, as to a fast food from a refrigerator. He should remind a magnificent dinner at candles and then to spouses it will be never boring with each other.

[The boredom in relations is familiar not only to family people, but also everyone who had long enough relations. It seems, that all charm has already ended, there was only a boring coexistence. If you wish to live a full, interesting, harmonious life, on practical trainings of Academy of Acquaintances you in real conditions learn to create a masterpiece from each day, to make rare and beautiful any moment of the relation with the favourite person.]

It is necessary to remember always of what the happiness consists. And it consists of love, trust, mutual understanding, passion, tenderness. And important health of spouses, a material well-being of family, time which two spend with each other here is. I shall repeat: though sometimes spouses should arrange joint weekends. It is important to halve all: both mountain, and pleasure. It is important to grow together, overcoming difficulties of a life.

SEX IS A PANACEA FROM ALL TROUBLES...

Leading physicians of the world have found an unique medical means: sex! Its by-effects possess simply magic properties. And the best to you that even with the doctor to consult is not necessary! It is established, that sexually active people are ill much less often, lives, are more pleased much more friendly and is more sociable than itself conduct. Thus, favourite in your bed quite can save to you a way up to the nearest drugstore, visiting of a beauty salon and sleepless night owing to absence of inspiration. Because sex...

... REMOVES THE PAIN
The reason in that at orgasm the acuteness of painful sensations noticeably becomes dull. The endorphins in your blood work like morphine, unless not so long. Thus, in the painful centers there is as though a switching. The migraine or headaches can not appear some time at all, and menstrual pains in the bottom part of a stomach practically disappear.

... INCREASES IMMUNITY
The American scientists have found out, that sex prevents cold diseases. People who are engaged in sex of one-two time in a week, in blood have more than antibodies of an antibody of group of A. They protect from a cold and other infections, with their help wounds are more quickly healed. But remember: any more always means better. Those who is betraid to joys of love more than two times a week, have less bodys A, than at those who is more moderate, but is engaged in sex more on a regular basis.

... DOES NOT ALLOW YOU TO BE FAT
Love games is the finest kind of sports. For 30 minutes of active sex burns down about 350 kcals, that is equal to 40 minutes of morning jog. And as during sex the belly muscles constantly strain, it replaces 15 minutes of special exercises with burning of fat in a gim.

... MAKES YOU BEAUTIFUL
It is promoted by emission in blood of a female hormone of an estrogen. It improves ability of cells to regeneration, promotes formation of collagen. The leather remains elastic and elastic, without wrinkles longer. Researches of the American scientists have shown, that at women whom once a week are engaged in sex even, much more above the contents of an estrogen in blood, than at abstaining. By the way, the high contents in blood of an estrogen interferes with occurrence of a cellulitis and spasmes as stimulates trouble-free work limfa units.

... STIMULATES TO CREATIVE
At people who are engaged in sex much and with pleasure, in blood stimulating hormones and adrenaline is more often circulate. The energy made by genitals, stimulates a hypophysis and a brain, considerably improving its blood circulation. German scientists considerthat sex not only increases attention and ability to concentrate, but also increases creative potential, enriching consciousness star loose of fresh ideas.

... CHEERS UP
There is an emission in blood of the substances promoting good state of health after orgasm: endorphins and serotonin. The natural psyho-cocktail giving pleasure. The women, living an active, full sexual life, are much more patience to associates, run into depression less often, practically do not test causeless fear. It is useful to know, that sex is an ideal way to remove weariness and stress.

HOW TO MAKE THE SURPRISE TO YOUR LOVER

Every day we are on thework, without ceremony we discuss with our favourite man details of our menstruation syndrome and we praise the man for attempts independently to fry a sausage. And the homeless melancholy starts to cover him: «Anybody does not love me, nobody respects... And only Mum washed to me a head with children's soap, fed me from spoon with porridge". And every morning, before waking invaluable son, warmed him socks on the radiator. Horror! And now overage the big fellow dreams of the geisha, slave and baby-sitter in one person. Let does not cry - we shall give him everything that he asks...

It is necessary to make him gifts. Present hima day of respect. It is not necessary to stimulate " good female behaviour " in yourself with fear of divorce. Fear is a bad assistant. It is better to do everything hearty. If there is not enough philantrophy free of charge to indulge man's whims in a soul, it is possible to think up to yourself mercenary interest. Tell him once again, that he is remarkable and talented, he will believe to you, will start to work better, will earn many money and the big brilliant or a small jeep will present you. Both is a quite good... There is a set of ways to make to the man pleasant. Ways are easy, but effective.
To stroke a shirt and trousers.
We take in hands a damp shirt and operate by rules. First we iron a wrong side of a collar from corners to the center then as we manage with a face sheet. An iron the collar needs to be dried up completely, differently it will fancifully be bent - and you any more will not correct it. Cuffs we iron under the same scheme. A back fold double, iron, and then smooth a fold. It is necessary to smooth only with a sharp nose of an iron a rod with buttons. Bend sleeves back and combine a shirt - the collaret should look upwards. Buy a spray for iron - both it is simple, and it is convenient, and smells pleasantly. Trousers to address even more difficultly, than with a shirt. Combine them so that internal and external seams on trousers have coincided, and then as if press, trample down a fabric an iron. If knees were extended, all over again iron them through very wet fabric, and then make "arrows".

To stop the blood.
At the man’s life there should be a war and a feat. A paintball and Doom are pity sublimation, the majority try to organize to itself adventures in the conditions more approached to a reality... Here history from a life. One young spouse has come home, it is literally bleeding profusely. Somebody have broken him a nose... He has seen, how strong fellows stick to the girl, and has immediately stood up for honour and advantage of the young person. Also was bats both - fellows, and the girl. It appears, the young lady was the prostitute who bargained with clients about the price... The damaged man's appearance traditionally restore by means of a polyethylene package with cubes of an ice. Do not swear, do not name favourite by the Knight of the Rueful Countenance and the idiot - set on a chair is better, put an ice on nose , stop up nostrils with wadded tampons with peroxide of hydrogen. Keep up only that he has not choked - with cotton wool in a nose to breathe inconveniently.
To cure of a cold.
Your sick man groans, chokes and becomes blue. All it is ridiculous, and he suffers really. To treat a cold, basically, it is useless. It passes itself. But in a drugstore the miracle-drop, narrowing vessels and creating illusion of simplification are on sale: "Nasol", "ForNose". However, they have a serious by-effect - hour through two cold is become even more awful, than was before treatment. From it helps the psychotherapy. Embrace and kiss your beloved. Make a tea with a raspberry, warm oil drops in a nose, woolen socks. And as panacea - sparkling aspirin. Dissolve around of the patient tireless activity, clap wings, and the cold in a week will pass.
To roast meat.
Since wild times meat for the man is a symbol of a good life. But to prepare for him it, it’s necessary correctly - with a smoke and smack of bullfight. Women so do not prepare, therefore thousand hunters every evening seek in stone jungle in searches of a signboard "the Stake on stones ". There to clients bring a piece of crude meat and the heated flat stone - let itself fries how considers it necessary... At you on kitchen of stones is not present, but correct meat you can prepare. First forget all recipes of your mum and the grandmother which cook meat, soar and extinguish with carrot. Men do not eat stewed carrots! Take a pig-iron frying pan (heavy, with a thick bottom) and heat it almost until white. A beef cut across fibres and dry a napkin. The superfluous drop of water transforms a beef into a sole. Now pour on a frying pan some drops of oil without a smell, throw there meat and few times turn over. Do not cover in no event! All kitchen will be inevitably filled with fumes and a stench, but modest heroism of battery Tushina does not remain without the award. Your man will be glad to a piece of your meat.
To allow to steal to him a sausage.
You wait for visitors and since morning are similar to the fury. Since six mornings you, gentle creation, create a work of art – His Majesty the Celebratory table. For the man in this world of a place is not present. Pulls a hand to a dish with gracefully cut by a salami, and you are at once in shout. It is unfair. Let steals meal, but accurately masks traces of the barbarity. Holes in aspic and a herring under a fur coat it is easy to patch parsleys.
Don’t sit down a wheel.
Even if you are the diplomaed pilot of Formula-1, the man all the same considers, that the car is only his toy. And the woman-driver is a the phenomenon humiliating for man's advantage. A lady shoe, a teapot and the letter "P"(pupil) on his back glass -are all the same that a tattoo "IMPOTENT MAN" at him forehead. It is not necessary to tease the bull. Sit down and be admired his each wild trick.
To fond of him dirty.
The man likes spontaneity in the sex, and long preludes, baths with aromas and dances at candles have more often lulling an effect. There is no big trouble if he on a threshold will break from himself a tie and will drag off you in a bedroom without preliminary ceremonies... The Best prelude is massage. Unimportantly, what is it. You simply touch his body with love and tenderness. If he is not afraid, if accepts your caress - means, sex at you will turn out on five with plus. And still to present it{him} pleasure in bed, it is necessary to be able to be pleased most. Your happy physiognomy will be for him the best gift of love.

[There is a set of ways to become desired for the man, but a little what them possesses high efficiency and can be applied at an initial stage of development of relations. On practical trainings of Academy of Acquaintances you in real conditions learn various ways of creation of favorable impression about yourselves in opinion of and hearts of strangers, and also can adjust in practice relations which you already long time cannot deduce into the necessary orbit.]

TO SWALLOW OR TO NOT SWALLOW?

According to interrogations, only 20 % of women swallow sperm. And practically 100 % of men dream of their partner did so. It is better, certainly, to learn to swallow sperm. It isn’t so difficult and not so unpleasant, as can seem in the beginning. Eventually, in one portion sperm contains only six calories so about the most important you can not worry: nothing threatens your figure. And other problems at desire can be overcome.

If the main obstacle for you is taste of sperm you can easily correct a state of affairs - by means of the friend.

If every possible shifts do not help, it is necessary to think of how, not swallowing sperm, to not offend the friend. The main thing - to not go in cycles in any one way, and to alternatethem depending on a situation and mood of your friend.

For some time detain sperm behind a cheek - and leave on секундочку in a bathroom. This way, however, suits only in the event that the quantity of sperm is not too great.

At that moment when iа he will be already close to оргазму, concentrate all attention to a head of his sexual member. During the moment оргазма remove slightly and substitute under a jet of sperm a breast or a stomach Directly this second he cannot obviously object - and during the following moment show him small sex-show. Pound ejaculate on a breast and a stomach, thus seductively stroking itself. Most likely, it will excite your friend so, that he there and then will want to continue love game.

Learn by means of lips and language to deliver to him such magic sensations, that first minutes after sex it he will be weakened to lay on bed, having covered eyes, and simply cannot notice, how you quietly will spit out sperm in a handkerchief.