Friday, August 17, 2007

SEX DURING PREGNANCY

Last researches have shown, that hormones of pleasure - endorphins which are produced during the orgasm moment , influence the child very salutarily, delivering pleasure is similar to it mother.

Moreover, orgasmis reductions of a uterus are useful to the child the similarity to patrimonial fights. The child has a conditioned reflex: reductions of a uterus - pleasure. And it means, that when the presents birth will begin, the first emotion will be too pleasure.

If you expect occurrence of the son, cheer up: the sexual life becomes much more attractive, as the boy all the same adds to an organism of mother of man's hormones. And they, these most our native hormones, repeatedly strengthen an inclination of the woman. If the ultrasound "has foretold" the girl, be not upset: sensuality of your wife all the same will amplify. In fact pregnancy is accompanied by inflow of blood to a uterus and clitor, therefore sexual experiences become brighter, than usually. And, as it is not paradoxical sounds, many pairs become more free because: the fear of not planned pregnancy disappears! By the way, do not forget, that man's hormones, enzymes and nutrients which act with sperm are useful to future mum.

Twenty years ago the gynecology considered that it is impossible to be engaged in sex two months after conception and two months before sorts. A today's sight: refusal of sex during pregnancy is a risk of alienation between spouses. Certainly, at this time it is necessary to be extremely cautious, to choose exclusively sparing positions (for example, on one side). A sexual life it is necessary to conduct even last weeks before sorts, having given, the truth, the basic attention to a petting and oral sex.

Everything about what we have told above, fall only to healthy women, to situations when both spouses would like, but is available fear to do much harm to the child. If any infection is found out in your wife, there was a threat of an abortion or has revealed cervix of the uterus, from a sexual life, certainly, it is necessary to refrain.

Many women (especially in the first months of pregnancy have a toxicosis) become rather irritable. At one hint on affinity at them the hysterics can begin. That, be reserved by patience and do not insist. The matter is that inconsistency of desires of the husband and the wife during pregnancy is quite explainable. In fact for continuation of a sort intimate dialogue of the man and the woman during this period - waste of a seed. But, on the other hand, sex during pregnancy - the mortgage of that the man will care of the woman with the newborn child. In general, it turns out, that from positions of evolutionary biology its absence (and, irrespective of a floor is explainable as well as strengthening of an inclination during pregnancy, and!).

Irina.: " When on the fifth month I had appreciable enough stomach, I have felt, that the husband concerns to me a little bit more cool, than earlier. After a while he has admitted, that I do not excite him in such kind also he would like to abstain from intimate affinity. All anything, but at this time I have turned almost in sexual мmaniak - I constantly would like to make love. With surprise I have found out, that all is far not men look at pregnant women how my husband. For the some people they, on the contrary, the most desired object. With me never got acquainted so actively in the street, as during this period. And in female consultation I spoke with the young woman which husband went mad of her increased stomach and the bulked up breast literally. The another matter, that at her just was not any desire to make love in this position ".

Dmitry: " Earlier I did not perceive pregnant women as sexual object at all The woman with a huge paunch reminded me the cow. And I did not understand, how it is possible to be engaged in sex with the woman, if there is a child at her in a stomach ! When my wife has become pregnant, I was afraid, that the desire in general will be gone. But all has happened differently. We were engaged in sex practically constantly (not including breaks for work, a dream, meal and walk). Her bosom was at this time unusually soft and gentle. I would compare sensations to bathing in a warm bathroom. The stomach stirred certainly, but it was compensated to those, my wife became very sensual. In sex from the pregnant woman there is less than sensuality, but you do not worry any more that your girlfriend can fly and it is possible to relax really ".

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

ABOUT ADVANTAGE OF THE REGULAR SEXUAL LIFE

The sexual life to the girl should be begun in the age of 18-20 years and in any way after 25 years. Law is unequivocal: the later there will be begun a sexual life, the worse it for the woman. Why? Yes because, if at the person any body which has ripened for such function it oppresses activity of other bodies does not function, breaks harmonous system and hormonal adjustment of all biological processes in an organism. Sexual bodies are created not for appearance and not from surplus of creativity at the nature, and because of severe necessity of continuation of a sort. Therefore to some young men, especially girls, doctors urgently recommend to marry or marry urgently to have an opportunity on a regular basis to have the sexual relations (certainly, meaning the relations, giving full satisfaction to both partners). Marriage in general (and especially if it is successful) is positively reflected on health. Only marriage allows free and in reliable conditions to make sexual acts when on it spouses will have a desire.
Consider, that a sexual life of adult people is the best means against many diseases. Since the most ancient times it is known, that the sexual relations of the man with the woman exclusively salutarily on the action. It well tones up an organism, improves all the processes proceeding in an organism and gives the man and the woman a huge emotional charge.
That is why to separate persons with rough activity sexual glands that is why as though " the knocked down hormones ", doctors as unique means recommend to enter marriage relations immediately. The sexual act besides salutary psychological action gives following effect:
1. At the sexual act there is a gentle massage of internal bodies of the man and especially women.
2. It is necessarily accompanied by improving inflow and low tide blood to bodies of a small pelvis.
3. Causes a discharge of high concentration of sexual hormones in blood (in case of ejaculation and оrgasm of both partners).
4. At the sexual act in a vagina of the woman man's sperm which is soaked up by a female organism gets. Suction alien fiber it is exclusively useful for health of the woman.
5. Makes pleasant physical work of muscles of all body, improves the general and local blood circulation, and, at last, gives high physical and psychological pleasure.
All this complex (it accompanies everyone finished the sexual relations) causes involuntarily in the person a high spirit, inflow of energy, a push to creativity, and also an opportunity to be forgotten by a happy dream from cares and vital failures and misunderstanding. And it is yet all. The sexual act supports in balance all vital processes in an organism due to observance so-called " sexual balance of generations ". This balance consists in appeasing a unconditional sexual reflex which copulation is, even 1-2 times a year, as at animals. This balance was developed during many millions years at our ancestors. If to it to add also children - flowers of our life it is clear as a lot of fine and rather dear in our life the lonely person loses. It is a pity to me of those who has no an opportunity on a regular basis to drink "nectar" of love on wide to a box.

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

WHAT US EXCITES

That we name intuition of the woman. Frequently speaks simply a transparency of intentions of the man.
Women

1. 70 percent of women test excitation at a kind of the man in negligent unbuttoned shirt.

2. More than 50 percent of women go crazy at a kind of the man in fitting jeans, and in the summer in short shorts.

3. Each fourth woman is got, looking at the man in solar glasses.

4. 1.5 percent of women feel desire at a kind of sexual man's linen even shop laying in a show-window.

5. Almost 70 percent are excited with a kind of the man, sitting in the negligent pose, laying on a stomach or sleeping.

6. More than 50 percent test a certain internal rise at a kind of the man, making on kitchen a breakfast or a dinner.

7. Upon everyone third makes sexual impression the man, the repairing car. And if he thus also is bedaubed by greasing, they simply go mad.

8.85 percent of women thaw from the men possessing vigorous gait, a good bearing and the constrained movements.

9.93 percent of women do not perceive as men of talkers and note witty.

10.70 percent of women will deal with the man sociable, but not annoying which does not open secrets of the private life and does not climb with intimate questions.

Men

1. At more than 80 percent of men blood runs on veins at a kind of the woman in a long black dress or a skirt with a lateral cut more quickly.

2.4 percent are most of all excited from a kind of lady in boots on a high heel, and boots should be leather and black.

3.15 percent of men excite well-groomed hands and long, varnished (is better pink) nails.

4. Only 5 percent of men recognize, that they are excited with a kind of the woman in a miniskirt, and only 4 percent are dragged from a kind of a bathing woman.

5.90 percent of men recognize, that feel excitation at a kind of the girl who are going in for sports is better jogging or gymnastics.

6. For 70 percent the kind of the woman painted before a mirror excitingly works.

7.50 percent of men feel rough emotions, seeing as the woman carries out heavy homeworks, for example saws fire wood, hammers in nails, etc.

8. 96 percent (!) of men go mad of a kind of vigorous women with wide movements which are able to combine highly professional work with house duties.

9. Only 7 percent of men take a great interest in witty women the others appreciate in the woman secret.

10. Each fourth man excites cold, cynical and predatory vamp.

Monday, August 13, 2007

THE IDEAL LOVER:ADVICES FOR WOMEN

Passionate and gentle, impatient, close and as if anticipating any your desire, gesture... He is generous on tender words not only "up to", but also "during", and "after". He looks at you so as if other women do not exist, and it makes you by the most beautiful and the most desired. He loves you all - your hair, lips, a neck, knees and fingers on legs. His each sight is full of secret sense, and from this is sweet heart fades and wings behind a back grow. With him it can be sad, but it is boring - never! It is a portrait of the ideal lover.

Cumulative female experience shows, that such men extremely seldom meet in the nature (in the ratio one to one thousand, and one can even to ten thousand). That is chances to catch the ideal lover in husbands are very insignificant. In fact how to distinguish this the superman among Adam's other sons?

Many of us are convinced, that at the ideal lover long thin fingers and, in general, beautifully molded hands. As a rule, he has well developed muscles. It is logical, in fact superfluous fat and flabby muscles testify to a low tone, and sexual - including.

And still speak, that at the ideal lover has the big nose and an extensive bald head. But, alas, even if on horizon there was an object with characteristic attributes, there are no guarantees, that he will show miracles in bed. Appearances are deceptive...

However, it has yet the occasion to complain about destiny because as psychoanalysts approve, practically in everyone to the man live Casanova, Don Juan and Gerackle in their best displays. Business of the woman is to wake the sexual giant in own husband, having made a joint life small branch of paradise on the ground.

So, what to do to transform the beloved into the ideal lover

Probably, it will be revelation for you, but psychoanalysts consider, that there is nothing and to dream of changing the man not having changed most. Installation on sexual re-education of the man will lead only to that he either becomes the impotent man, or will run away to other woman. And therefore...

Step 1. Paraphrase a task in view, having emphasized not on "re-education" the husband, and on perfection of your sexual relations. Replace aggressive spirit on positive and constructive!

Step 2. Analyse all your joint life. For certain during a honeymoon your elect was represented you by an embodiment of the best man's qualities. He has changed (and as it seems to you, not in the best side). But in fact all in the world varies. You do not think, that have remained same, as five (10, 20...) years back!

Now think above that, as far as you have departed from an image of the ideal mistress in which you, undoubtedly, were, being the newly made wife. Comprehension of own imperfection "I" will help you to understand and accept lacks of the beloved, stimulate you on changes in own.

But it has already been a step 3. Recollect, how you perceived favourite earlier. You admired and touched the most simple things: a sound of his voice, how he ridiculously wrinkles a nose when sneezes, all him moles and scars. Throw off from itself a peel of the lived years, the saved up experience, clever advices. Abstract from scientific calculations about crisis of 3-rd, 7-th and 15-th years of a life. Become that whom you were for him in that hot insatiable summer (autumn, winter spring). Become the ideal mistress!

Step 4. During sex think only of sex. Away ideas on not whitewashed ceiling and to that similar! It not only kills your excitation in a germ. According to researches of scientists, during intimate affinity at lovers ability to communicate at a level unconscious becomes aggravated. It is simple to guess, how the man if you will be deaf and mute to all to his signals will react.

Step 5. Being engaged in sex, never constrain the feelings. Shout, if you would like to shout, groan, whisper, cry - everything, everything, any contro! It is natural, if your mutual emotions and imaginations do not bring harm (a pain or feeling of depression).

Step 6. Induce Him to make love more often: recurrence - mother of the doctrine! Try to avoid routine. Remember, that skills and skills turn to art only in the event that in process of training the element of creativity has been introduced. Offer favourite game " Today – I am, tomorrow - you are": in one day you apply a maximum of efforts on making night of love unforgettable, and for other day it should be made to him. Such experiment wakens sexual imagination, interest and creative activity in the man. Then, when game will be forgotten, the aspiration to diversify an intimate life remains at a level of unconscious impulses.


Some advice for women with different types orgasm.

If at you vagina-type orgasm, choose "concession-calling" style of behaviour. It does not mean, that you should lay. As the idol, not answering on man's caress. Perceive him as the force, capable to fill with itself all space, not having left any extraneous ideas and emotions uniform chance of a survival. Only such attitude to the man can guarantee sexual success and the further development of harmonious attitudes.

At clitoral-type additional stimulation clitor, as is known, is necessary. Experts approve, that 40 percent of women achieve satisfaction only in the event that do it independently. The prompt way to achievement of sexual harmony consists in convincing the man: anything humiliating man's advantage in this is not present. It is easy to tell: "convince"! And how does to make it? Present it as a part of erotic game. Not stopping to stroke itself on a body, repeat: " However, my skin is very gentle " Then your hand smoothly slides to a treasured place - and it will be naturally enough! Or offer favourite "division of labour": you will concentrate on clitor while he caresss other your erogenous zones. Any normal the man will apprehend these actions as an excellent stimulant.

Three rules which never and under no circumstances cannot be broken at dialogue with the beloved
1. Do not criticize his sexual opportunities in comparison with someone's others.

2. Do not punish his refusal of affinity in reply to his any fault.

3. Do not accuse him that test a dissatisfaction.

If you have executed all these recommendations, but your husband is still far from an image of the ideal lover, address to the psychoanalyst. He will help you to realize all mistakes and the complexes connected with them, stirring to harmonize your intimate relations.