SEX DURING PREGNANCY
Last researches have shown, that hormones of pleasure - endorphins which are produced during the orgasm moment , influence the child very salutarily, delivering pleasure is similar to it mother.
Moreover, orgasmis reductions of a uterus are useful to the child the similarity to patrimonial fights. The child has a conditioned reflex: reductions of a uterus - pleasure. And it means, that when the presents birth will begin, the first emotion will be too pleasure.
If you expect occurrence of the son, cheer up: the sexual life becomes much more attractive, as the boy all the same adds to an organism of mother of man's hormones. And they, these most our native hormones, repeatedly strengthen an inclination of the woman. If the ultrasound "has foretold" the girl, be not upset: sensuality of your wife all the same will amplify. In fact pregnancy is accompanied by inflow of blood to a uterus and clitor, therefore sexual experiences become brighter, than usually. And, as it is not paradoxical sounds, many pairs become more free because: the fear of not planned pregnancy disappears! By the way, do not forget, that man's hormones, enzymes and nutrients which act with sperm are useful to future mum.
Twenty years ago the gynecology considered that it is impossible to be engaged in sex two months after conception and two months before sorts. A today's sight: refusal of sex during pregnancy is a risk of alienation between spouses. Certainly, at this time it is necessary to be extremely cautious, to choose exclusively sparing positions (for example, on one side). A sexual life it is necessary to conduct even last weeks before sorts, having given, the truth, the basic attention to a petting and oral sex.
Everything about what we have told above, fall only to healthy women, to situations when both spouses would like, but is available fear to do much harm to the child. If any infection is found out in your wife, there was a threat of an abortion or has revealed cervix of the uterus, from a sexual life, certainly, it is necessary to refrain.
Many women (especially in the first months of pregnancy have a toxicosis) become rather irritable. At one hint on affinity at them the hysterics can begin. That, be reserved by patience and do not insist. The matter is that inconsistency of desires of the husband and the wife during pregnancy is quite explainable. In fact for continuation of a sort intimate dialogue of the man and the woman during this period - waste of a seed. But, on the other hand, sex during pregnancy - the mortgage of that the man will care of the woman with the newborn child. In general, it turns out, that from positions of evolutionary biology its absence (and, irrespective of a floor is explainable as well as strengthening of an inclination during pregnancy, and!).
Irina.: " When on the fifth month I had appreciable enough stomach, I have felt, that the husband concerns to me a little bit more cool, than earlier. After a while he has admitted, that I do not excite him in such kind also he would like to abstain from intimate affinity. All anything, but at this time I have turned almost in sexual мmaniak - I constantly would like to make love. With surprise I have found out, that all is far not men look at pregnant women how my husband. For the some people they, on the contrary, the most desired object. With me never got acquainted so actively in the street, as during this period. And in female consultation I spoke with the young woman which husband went mad of her increased stomach and the bulked up breast literally. The another matter, that at her just was not any desire to make love in this position ".
Dmitry: " Earlier I did not perceive pregnant women as sexual object at all The woman with a huge paunch reminded me the cow. And I did not understand, how it is possible to be engaged in sex with the woman, if there is a child at her in a stomach ! When my wife has become pregnant, I was afraid, that the desire in general will be gone. But all has happened differently. We were engaged in sex practically constantly (not including breaks for work, a dream, meal and walk). Her bosom was at this time unusually soft and gentle. I would compare sensations to bathing in a warm bathroom. The stomach stirred certainly, but it was compensated to those, my wife became very sensual. In sex from the pregnant woman there is less than sensuality, but you do not worry any more that your girlfriend can fly and it is possible to relax really ".
