CASUAL COMMUNICATIONS DOES NOT HAPPEN
It’s said, that when before the woman there is a question - to be unfaithful or not -her decision depends on if her present relations with the husband is good. So "casual" communications at women does not happen. Let's consider the most traditional « casual communications» from the point of view of psychological difficulties.
The woman always searches for acknowledgement of the beauty and originality. It is as air to her, is important so, that if she does not receive a recognition gift{for nothing} and from lawful the man all over again tries to reconcile, and then starts « to breathe furtively », to steal air, admiration and love on the side. And here under what script will develop "searches", depends on lady has collided with what psychological problem.
The first script «One over the eight»
99 % of bed cases are a drinking, a pier « I remembered nothing so…. ».
So if after three glasses to cognac silent person cracks as the diesel engine, and business-lady climbs on a rack of a bar most likely these contrasts sat somewhere on boondocks of their consciousness.
The diagnosis
Sex « One over the eight » removes our brakes. And if you so it is easy from them have flied, most likely, you from yourselves hide something. For example, that the husband isn’t so good, or that she for a long time dreamed of the husband’s friend.
The second script « The resort romance »
You can tired it is possible both from work, and from the rest. And in fact on each of us, even the most true, there will be a temptation in swimming trunks «Speedo» - to whom the instructor on navigation, whom the burning Turk, to whom the silent young man. In fact each of us (sometimes!) it would be desirable something such, more often that at us is not present … So quite innocent flirtation which in city conditions only decorates grey everyday lives, here becomes serious threat to our chastity.
Special trump of resort novels that about our foreign outbursts really nobody learns.
The diagnosis
Usually men from the very beginning are adjusted on - lead-time-and-have run up. And here women often idealize passions. Therefore in advance solve for yourself two important things. First, what do you actually want? Easier to vanish, revenge the husband, to find love of all life or to not lag behind the girlfriend whom already 4-th has brought? And, secondly, as you will cope with feeling of fault before «He»?
The third script «Sex with the stranger»
87 % of women dream about sex with the stranger. But one business - to dream, and absolutely another - to pass to actions. Whether it is necessary to agree on sex with the person whom you never any more see? With which is not necessary to simulate orgasm simply that don’t him upset. It is not necessary to reflect, what words or actions will affect the further relations. For many women it is an opportunity to become another, that is self, but such what woman never dared to be in bed. Dissolute or on the contrary - at last indifferent and to not encourage his shouts, as a horse on a hippodrome.
The diagnosis
Sex with the stranger shows, that the woman wishes to play in gambling. Or that she has a excessive temperament. But in most cases the woman who agrees on sex with liked the man, almost always searches for the big love. And whether she will find it in a roadside toilet - still a question. However, in a life everyone happens.
The fourth script « Revenge to the husband »
Treason is so widespread phenomenon, that very few people avoids this speed up. And even if the wife has found out, has reconciled and has forgiven, very seldom she manages to get rid of a heavy deposit. And usually the woman dares to come as far, as well as her own husband.
However from practice of family psychologists it is known, that as aspirin from the wounds put by the husband treason does not help. But it is very effective way to understand, that you actually think about own to the man. There are many cases when the stranger man evidently proved, that her native husband does not satisfy her, does not understand, does not please and even meanly uses. But much more often the woman finds out, that this extraneous type in soles is not necessary to her spouse.
The diagnosis
The revenge to the husband speaks that you is what to reconsider in the marriage and in yourself. Women are essences mysterious even for themselves. Therefore at us the desire can accept the form of changes more painfully to revenge the husband not only for treason, but also for absence of money, that he does not satisfy her, humiliates, for his cranky mummy.. More shortly, for everything. Therefore if sex with another pleases the woman only in as revenge... There is a weight of less labour-consuming ways "to get" the spouse.
The fifth script Night with "ex"
Charm of it situation is that both can convince themselves that nothing has happened. So this time - simply sex, it became simple very sadly, simply you have casually appeared naked absolutely beside. And certainly, there is an innocent justification for everything - for example, she were praised to him new lingerie...
The diagnosis
The truth about such « friendly sex » consists that almost always for one of partners (and even for both) night after parting means that feelings have not died away.And if the woman in years suddenly feel, that these years as though were not, it is necessary to recollect such statistics: about 70 % of pairs during a long joint life (more than 5 years) miss and again incorporate.
BUT! Before to plan light tomorrow on second time - find out about his present girlfriends and plans. Suddenly he by way of exception speaks the truth and it is valid only sex for him?
